{"id":38515,"date":"2026-02-12T00:07:00","date_gmt":"2026-02-12T06:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/?page_id=38515"},"modified":"2026-03-02T01:37:11","modified_gmt":"2026-03-02T07:37:11","slug":"relationships-and-human-connection","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/?page_id=38515","title":{"rendered":"Relationships and human connection"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Website-cover-connections.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-38516\" src=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Website-cover-connections.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1994\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Website-cover-connections.jpg 1994w, https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Website-cover-connections-300x95.jpg 300w, https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Website-cover-connections-1024x324.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Website-cover-connections-768x243.jpg 768w, https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Website-cover-connections-1536x485.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1994px) 100vw, 1994px\" \/><\/a><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong>Humans are wired for connection, yet genuine closeness often proves far more fragile than we expect.<\/strong><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">We long to be seen, understood and loved, but relationships bring vulnerability, risk and the possibility of deep disappointment alongside deep joy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">These essays explore love, intimacy, illusion, devotion and the quiet emotional forces shaping how we bond with others \u2014 and sometimes how we hide from them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><b>&#x25b6; <a href=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/?p=20302\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">We have a hunger for love just as strong as the need for food, water<\/a><\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">Love is not a luxury or sentimental indulgence. 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