{"id":15996,"date":"2012-07-26T00:00:50","date_gmt":"2012-07-26T05:00:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/?p=15996"},"modified":"2012-07-26T10:42:07","modified_gmt":"2012-07-26T15:42:07","slug":"chick-fil-a-boycott-misguided-tolerance-has-to-run-both-ways","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/?p=15996","title":{"rendered":"Chick-fil-A boycott misguided; tolerance has to run both ways"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/Chick-fil-A-cow.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-16023\" title=\"Chick-fil-A cow\" src=\"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/Chick-fil-A-cow.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"345\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/Chick-fil-A-cow.jpg 460w, https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/Chick-fil-A-cow-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>When most people demand &#8220;tolerance&#8221; of others, they really mean they insist that others accept their own positions &#8212; and then they&#8217;re outraged if positions contrary to their own are actually tolerated.<\/p>\n<p>I keep thinking about that when I read about the gay activists who are <a href=\"http:\/\/boycottchickfila.com\" target=\"_blank\">leading obsessive boycotts<\/a> of the fast food chain, Chick-fil-A. For decades, these same gay activists have demanded that everyone show toleration of their sexual orientation. There was a time when gays and lesbians were horribly mistreated by the law. We&#8217;re not living in that day, and it&#8217;s silly to pretend that we are. (I&#8217;ve argued that the <a title=\"Why do you need a license? It\u2019s time for separation of marriage and state\" href=\"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/?p=13402\" target=\"_blank\">state has no business defining marriage<\/a> and dictating who can marry, so I&#8217;m not in a camp that wants to legally define marriage in any particular way.)<\/p>\n<p>Activists are angry with Chick-fil-A because the private company&#8217;s owners have given money to Christian groups, some of which have favored efforts to legally define marriage as being between a man and a woman. The activists say this isn&#8217;t just a disagreement. No, it&#8217;s &#8220;hate,&#8221; they say. They don&#8217;t give any evidence that Chick-fil-A hates anyone. They simply define disagreement with their view as hatred. It&#8217;s hard to imagine a more insane twisting of what words really mean.<\/p>\n<p><!--more-->Politicians pandering to the activists &#8212; some of whom are probably genuinely outraged personally by the company&#8217;s stance &#8212; have started promising to use the power of law to stop Chick-fil-A, all because those politicians disagree with a political stance of a company&#8217;s owners. Who exactly <em>are<\/em> the &#8220;intolerant&#8221; people these days?<\/p>\n<p>Boston Mayor Thomas Menino sent an <a href=\"http:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/boston-mayor-to-chick-fil-a-your-bigotry-isnt-welcome-here?c=la3\" target=\"_blank\">angry letter<\/a> to Chick-fil-A and has promised to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bostonherald.com\/news\/regional\/view.bg?articleid=1061147182\" target=\"_blank\">use zoning tricks to stop the company<\/a> from opening locations in the city. In Chicago, a city alderman is <a href=\"http:\/\/articles.chicagotribune.com\/2012-07-25\/news\/ct-met-chicago-chick-fil-a-20120725_1_1st-ward-gay-marriage-ward-alderman\" target=\"_blank\">trying to deny Chick-fil-A a business permit<\/a>\u00a0to open in his district, and he openly says it&#8217;s because of the company owners&#8217; stance on gay marriage. And Thursday morning, it was reported that Chicago Mayor <a href=\"http:\/\/www.suntimes.com\/news\/13988905-418\/emanuel-goes-after-chick-fil-a-for-boss-anti-gay-views.html\" target=\"_blank\">Rahm Emanuel is also attacking the company<\/a> and trying to prevent it from opening in the city &#8212; all because he disagrees with the political views of company management.<\/p>\n<p>Politicians using the force of law to punish companies which hold sincere political views different from their own are vile. They&#8217;re asserting the right to use the power of the state to enforce their own views, which is exactly what they&#8217;re complaining about the other side doing. Let&#8217;s be honest, though. The people who want state control of everything &#8212; whether it&#8217;s marriage or safety or anything else &#8212; aren&#8217;t really worried about principles or rights. They&#8217;re interested in outcomes. The politicians who are grandstanding here don&#8217;t care about rights. <em>They merely care about their views being enforced by law<\/em>. Isn&#8217;t that what they complain about the Religious Right trying to do?<\/p>\n<p>And even if you aren&#8217;t trying to use the force of law to compel compliance, do you really want to live in a world where everyone only does business with others who they agree with?<\/p>\n<p>If I go to a restaurant, I&#8217;m interested in whether the place serves food I want at a price I&#8217;m willing to pay. I&#8217;m interested in how I&#8217;m treated there. I&#8217;m interested in whether I like the people who serve me. On all of those points, Chick-fil-A shines. They have excellent fast food. They&#8217;re obsessive in insisting that employees treat customers well. Their training is legendary in this regard, and they&#8217;re better than any other chain I know of at getting rid of problem employees in order to deliver a consistently good experience. They&#8217;re not perfect, but I know of no other place that comes close.<\/p>\n<p>(I&#8217;ll especially give credit to the Chick-fil-A locations in Trussville, the Birmingham suburb where I live, and in Leeds, just a bit south of me. It&#8217;s hard to see how anybody could beat the service that these two stores routinely provide for their customers.)<\/p>\n<p>If I go to a dry cleaner, I care about whether the folks there can clean my clothes. When I go to get a haircut &#8212; from a gay guy, by the way &#8212; I&#8217;m interested in whether he cuts my hair well, not with what he does on his own time or what his political views might be. If I go to a grocery store, I&#8217;m interested in whether the place has the products I want to buy and prices I can afford, not whether the company management might disagree with me about foreign policy or taxation (both of which I consider moral issues).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/She-loves-Chick-fil-A.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-16032\" title=\"She loves Chick-fil-A\" src=\"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/She-loves-Chick-fil-A.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"282\" \/><\/a>I&#8217;m treated well at Chick-fil-A and I like the service and the people. In addition, one of my very favorite people happens to be a manager at the Chick-fil-A in my neighborhood &#8212; and he&#8217;s gay. Everybody there knows that. It&#8217;s never been an issue. He&#8217;s not treated any differently than anybody else. And customers are treated the same whether they might be gay or not. It&#8217;s a well-run company that treats its employees and customers well. Whether you agree with the company owners&#8217; position on marriage or not, Chick-fil-A is an excellent company.<\/p>\n<p>It wasn&#8217;t that long ago that the Southern Baptist Convention &#8212; the nation&#8217;s largest protestant denomination &#8212; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.msnbc.msn.com\/id\/8318263\/ns\/us_news\/t\/southern-baptists-end--year-disney-boycott\/#.UBCOFEJ5nzI\" target=\"_blank\">participated in an eight-year boycott of Disney<\/a> over the company&#8217;s pro-gay and alleged anti-Christian stance. The boycott was spearheaded by a Religious Right group called the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.afa.net\" target=\"_blank\">American Family Association<\/a> and the Baptists followed. In 2006, the groups finally ended the boycott, making vague noises about it having been effective. Nobody really believed that &#8212; and it was a terrible idea from the start.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to boycott a company because you disagree with the company&#8217;s management on political or religious issues &#8212; and you demand that other people do the same &#8212; I think you&#8217;re the one who&#8217;s being intolerant.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Note:<\/strong> The Atlantic had an <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/politics\/archive\/2012\/07\/in-defense-of-eating-at-chick-fil-a\/260139\/\" target=\"_blank\">article last week<\/a> that I also recommend on the issue of the Chick-fil-A boycott. In addition, Glenn Greewald has an<a href=\"http:\/\/www.salon.com\/2012\/07\/26\/rahm_emanuels_free_speech_attack\/\" target=\"_blank\"> excellent article today on the free speech implications<\/a> of Rahm Emanuel&#8217;s political attack.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When most people demand &#8220;tolerance&#8221; of others, they really mean they insist that others accept their own positions &#8212; and then they&#8217;re outraged if positions contrary to their own are actually tolerated. 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