{"id":21882,"date":"2016-11-01T13:50:08","date_gmt":"2016-11-01T18:50:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/?p=21882"},"modified":"2016-11-01T14:10:36","modified_gmt":"2016-11-01T19:10:36","slug":"i-dont-allow-comments-anymore-and-id-like-to-briefly-explain-why","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/?p=21882","title":{"rendered":"I don\u2019t allow comments anymore, and I\u2019d like to briefly explain why"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Dont-Feed-the-Trolls.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-21883\" src=\"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Dont-Feed-the-Trolls.jpg\" alt=\"dont-feed-the-trolls\" width=\"249\" height=\"258\" \/><\/a>Ever since I started this site five and a half years ago, I&#8217;ve struggled with the issue of what to do about public comments. I used to allow them &#8212; because it seemed like the obvious thing which almost every website does &#8212; but I was frustrated with the level of discourse.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve had many interesting and useful comments from people &#8212; not all of which I even agree with, but which I found useful to the discussion &#8212; but a ridiculous percentage of comments have come from angry people who are simply anonymous cowards causing trouble by screaming at people on the Internet.<\/p>\n<p>Some of the worst offenders have been people I&#8217;ve generally liked and even agreed with, but something about anonymous online commenting leads a lot of people to become nasty in ways they&#8217;d never be in real life.<\/p>\n<p>For a long time, I put up with that, thinking it was a tradeoff I was willing to make. I slowly became more and more uncomfortable with that tradeoff, though.<\/p>\n<p>Since I&#8217;m rarely writing about politics these days, my articles don&#8217;t attract the fairly regular vitriol they once did, but I&#8217;ve simply reached the point I&#8217;m not willing to tolerate any of it. (And, of course, I have also spent a ridiculous amount of time deleting spam comments which you guys have never even seen.)<\/p>\n<p><!--more-->Last week, I turned the comments off. Earlier today, I realized something odd had happened which temporarily allowed them again, but I think the settings are correct now. It&#8217;s possible I could change my mind about this again, but I don&#8217;t anticipate that right now. It&#8217;s even possible that I&#8217;ll open comments on certain rare articles for specific reasons. But for the most part, comments aren&#8217;t allowed now.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re still very welcome to <a href=\"mailto:davidmcelroy@mac.com\">email me<\/a> any comments you&#8217;d like to make &#8212; as long as they&#8217;re polite and reasonable, of course. I respond if I have time and the subject requires a response. (But I don&#8217;t have time anymore for relationship questions. Seriously. I can&#8217;t even find the right love for myself. I&#8217;m unlikely to be able to help you.)<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sorry trolls ruin what could be a fruitful exchange between people who treat each other politely and respectfully. Online culture seems to dictate that sort of behavior is normal, but I just can&#8217;t allow it here anymore. I don&#8217;t have the stomach for it and I don&#8217;t have the energy or desire to police it. I hope you understand.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever since I started this site five and a half years ago, I&#8217;ve struggled with the issue of what to do about public comments. I used to allow them &#8212; because it seemed like the obvious thing which almost every website does &#8212; but I was frustrated with the level of discourse. 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