{"id":23298,"date":"2017-12-28T23:37:48","date_gmt":"2017-12-29T05:37:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/?p=23298"},"modified":"2019-03-29T18:16:11","modified_gmt":"2019-03-29T23:16:11","slug":"maybe-it-wasnt-the-correct-choice-but-im-not-having-surgery-friday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/?p=23298","title":{"rendered":"Maybe it wasn\u2019t correct choice, but I\u2019m not having surgery Friday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/St.-Vincents-emergency-room.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-23299\" src=\"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/St.-Vincents-emergency-room.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"273\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/St.-Vincents-emergency-room.jpg 460w, https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/St.-Vincents-emergency-room-300x178.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If I had taken the advice of my emergency room doctor tonight, I would be in a hospital bed &#8212; getting ready for surgery in the morning. I didn&#8217;t take his advice, though, so I&#8217;m back home. Only time will tell whether I made the right decision.<\/p>\n<p>I started feeling lousy on Christmas Day and I felt worse as the week went along. At first, it was just discomfort in my chest and back. I felt terrible in multiple ways. I went to work each day but I barely pulled myself through each day until it was late enough to go home and collapse.<\/p>\n<p>By Thursday morning, the discomfort had turned to serious pain. I went to the clinic of a friend who&#8217;s a doctor about 11:30 a.m. After examining me and taking X-rays, he suspected the problem was my gallbladder, but he couldn&#8217;t be sure without an ultrasound.<\/p>\n<p>He suggested I immediately head to a hospital emergency room.<\/p>\n<p><!--more-->By the time I got to the emergency room at St. Vincent&#8217;s Hospital in Birmingham, I was in the most pain I&#8217;ve ever experienced. The pain in my chest and back was so strong I couldn&#8217;t even breathe deeply. I sat in the waiting room and researched all the negative possibilities of gallbladder problems while I waited for a doctor to see me. (I also spent a lot of time thinking about why I didn&#8217;t have a wife to come with me, but that&#8217;s a bigger issue.)<\/p>\n<p>Simple tests ruled out other issues and the evidence kept pointing to gallstones. I was taken up a floor to an ultrasound machine.<\/p>\n<p>By about mid afternoon, the pain suddenly subsided. I still didn&#8217;t feel back to normal, but I felt the best I&#8217;ve felt in a couple of weeks. Had I passed a stone in some way? Is that what had been going on all week?<\/p>\n<p>The ultrasound results confirmed that I have gallstones. The gallbladder itself wasn&#8217;t enlarged or inflamed, but some of my liver enzymes and bilirubin were strongly elevated above normal. (If you&#8217;re like me, you have little idea what those things even mean.) The doctor said this indicated that the liver is upset about what&#8217;s going on.<\/p>\n<p>The ER doctor went off to consult a surgeon, who agreed that my gallbladder needs to come out. They recommended I stay at the hospital tonight and have the surgery in the morning.<\/p>\n<p>At first, I agreed to their plan, but I started questioning this course of action as I started texting with my doctor friend and reading other information online. It wasn&#8217;t that I thought the doctors at the hospital were wrong; <em>it was simply that I wasn&#8217;t certain they were right.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The doctor warned me that this could turn into pancreatitis. There were several other dire possibilities, but that&#8217;s the one I remember most clearly.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m home now &#8212; about to get into bed so I can get back to work in the morning &#8212; and I still don&#8217;t know whether I made the right decision.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe the doctor was right. I don&#8217;t know. But I do know that he said the other issues that could develop from this would come with their own warning signs &#8212; which will give me time to get back to a hospital in case I need to.<\/p>\n<p>When we make medical decisions in emergency rooms, it&#8217;s hard to know whether we&#8217;re making the right ones. We rarely have enough information &#8212; and the information you find online can be wildly contradictory &#8212; and we generally defer to trained physicians who are the experts.<\/p>\n<p>That might be what I should have done. But I couldn&#8217;t find any downside to taking my time and figuring out all my options. The doctor friend with whom I was texting suggested that he might be able to help me fix the issue through dietary changes, for instance. I just know that I wanted more opinions and more information before I decided.<\/p>\n<p>For me, that was the right thing to do. Time will tell whether it was the right medical decision, but it was definitely the decision I was most comfortable with knowing what I knew at the time.<\/p>\n<p>I hope that very competent ER doctor will forgive me for not taking his advice.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Note:<\/strong> My illness this week kept me unable to finish my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.davidmcelroy.org\/?p=23274\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">new podcast<\/a>, so it will be delayed a bit. I&#8217;ll finish the first episode for you just as soon as I can.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If I had taken the advice of my emergency room doctor tonight, I would be in a hospital bed &#8212; getting ready for surgery in the morning. I didn&#8217;t take his advice, though, so I&#8217;m back home. Only time will tell whether I made the right decision. 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