{"id":32557,"date":"2020-09-14T20:22:35","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T01:22:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/?p=32557"},"modified":"2020-09-14T20:22:35","modified_gmt":"2020-09-15T01:22:35","slug":"briefly-psychologist-outlines-how-parents-create-narcissistic-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/?p=32557","title":{"rendered":"Briefly: Psychologist outlines how parents create narcissistic children"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Child-and-mirror.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-32558\" src=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Child-and-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"259\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Child-and-mirror.jpg 460w, https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Child-and-mirror-300x169.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Narcissists tend to turn their children into narcissists \u2014 and since a narcissist doesn\u2019t realize he or she is a narcissist, there\u2019s no bad intent. How does this happen? I watched a YouTube video over the weekend from an Australian psychologist who does a nice job of <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/SeVj_0r0swg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">summarizing how it works<\/a>. None of this is new to me, but I thought it was useful for those who haven\u2019t spent years digging through books and articles about it. The same psychologist has an excellent summary of something which confuses a lot of people about narcissism. You\u2019ve all seen examples of the loud, boisterous and overbearing narcissist, but what about the ones who are more introverted and vulnerable? This type is called a <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/Cq7pj6oPJ4M\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">covert narcissist<\/a>\u00a0(or a vulnerable narcissist), and this is what my father was. In the first video, I strongly see myself in the ways my father treated me and in the second video, I see what my father was almost successful in making me become.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Narcissists tend to turn their children into narcissists \u2014 and since a narcissist doesn\u2019t realize he or she is a narcissist, there\u2019s no bad intent. How does this happen? I watched a YouTube video over the weekend from an Australian psychologist who does a nice job of summarizing how it works. None of this is <a href=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/?p=32557\" class=\"more-link\">Keep Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[556],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-32557","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-briefly","7":"entry"},"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1x9iR-8t7","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32557","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=32557"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32557\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":32560,"href":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32557\/revisions\/32560"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=32557"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=32557"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=32557"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}