{"id":35152,"date":"2021-10-25T23:58:06","date_gmt":"2021-10-26T04:58:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/?p=35152"},"modified":"2021-10-25T23:58:06","modified_gmt":"2021-10-26T04:58:06","slug":"audio-we-rarely-realize-were-wasting-our-lives-til-its-too-late","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/?p=35152","title":{"rendered":"AUDIO: We rarely realize we\u2019re wasting our lives \u2019til it\u2019s too late"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Third-chair.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-35153\" src=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Third-chair.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"259\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Third-chair.jpg 920w, https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Third-chair-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Third-chair-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>For a few weeks now, I\u2019ve been thinking a lot about some simple questions.<\/p>\n<p><em>What does it mean to waste your life?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>And if you discover you really are wasting your life, what do you do about it?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve known that I wanted to talk about this for awhile \u2014 ever since I saw an odd exhortation on a church sign near my house. It said, <em>\u201cPlease don\u2019t waste your life.\u201d<\/em> I didn\u2019t disagree with the sentiments of the sign \u2014 although I\u2019m unclear what their context was \u2014 but I started thinking about how few people even realize their lives are wasted until it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n<p>That led me to thinking about my own life \u2014 and how my thoughts about a life worth living have changed over the years. But I wasn\u2019t really ready to talk about it until I passed a house near my office Monday afternoon and saw a front yard with two two adult-size chairs and one child-size chair.<\/p>\n<p>Then I knew how I wanted to conclude this. Maybe it won\u2019t apply to you, but it feels true for me.<\/p>\n<p>Tap or click below to listen. And please forgive the train in the distance at the end. I\u2019m not really worrying about avoiding such sounds anymore.<!--more--><\/p>\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-35152-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Journal-experiment-3.m4a?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Journal-experiment-3.m4a\">https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Journal-experiment-3.m4a<\/a><\/audio>\n<p><em><strong>Note:<\/strong> I still haven&#8217;t worked out the technical issues of moving this audio journal (or whatever it is) to its own feed. But that&#8217;s still coming.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Dont-waste-your-life-sign.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-35108\" src=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Dont-waste-your-life-sign.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"259\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Dont-waste-your-life-sign.jpg 920w, https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Dont-waste-your-life-sign-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/davidmcelroy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Dont-waste-your-life-sign-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For a few weeks now, I\u2019ve been thinking a lot about some simple questions. What does it mean to waste your life? And if you discover you really are wasting your life, what do you do about it? 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