You and I aren’t required to have opinions about anything outside of our own lives. We’re not even required to know about the idiotic controversies which take up so much time and energy in modern media. We can ignore them if we choose. We don’t need to be able to converse about what Celebrity X said or what “social media” is saying about Politician Y. The more we fill our minds with this extraneous garbage, the less attention and energy we have for the things which do matter to us. It’s hard to be active on social media or to consume much other media and still maintain this stance, but what that suggests is that maybe media consumption is making it more difficult for us to live meaningful lives — and maybe it’s time for us to make more changes in our habits. Taking back control over our lives demands that we know what’s important to us — and it demands that we say no to agendas driven by gossip and advertising.
If romantic love is mental illness, do many of us want to be cured?
Love is the only form of madness which most of us gladly seek.
I came across an anonymous post on a social media site in which a man was gushing about his happiness at finding the love of his life.
“I found her,” he wrote. “In the most bizarre place, I met the woman who has become the most important person in my life — and my lifelong partner.”
To “find” someone implies that she was lost — or that there was someone he had always needed to find. Is he crazy? Or is this the most clearly he will ever see this world?
“I lost hope for the longest time,” he wrote. “Thinking no one will ever be able to understand me. To really take time to get to know me. I thought I was always going to be alone in this world. I’ve always felt like an outsider from this world. Like everything I do is wrong. Like the person I am is just not how a person is meant to be.”
I know exactly what he felt. Do you?
Briefly: Retired teacher from Mass.: ‘It is an act of insanity to stay in the U.S.’
More and more Americans are moving from their native cities to other countries, some for retirement and others because they see danger ahead for the U.S. Mary Taft is a retired teacher and school administrator from Massachusetts who wanted a comfortable and safe place to retire, because she said she saw “the social fabric is shattering” in the country where she grew up. She now thinks it’s a mistake for anybody to stay. “It is an act of insanity to continue to stay in the U.S.,” she told MarketWatch, in an article which looks at the factors that led her to choose Panama as her inexpensive retirement destination.

Briefly: So you think you’re pretty smart, huh?
Briefly: If a person constantly annoys you, it’s OK to cut him off
Briefly: Only men have prostates, so why are health orgs virtue-signaling by targeting ‘women’?
We’re neither friends nor enemies, just strangers who share the past
‘This path leads to somewhere I think I can finally say, I’m home’
When love finally dies, it’s like a fever breaks and the pain is gone
Briefly: Dumbed-down public discourse means reason is dead
Briefly: Please be patient while we upgrade the site a bit
Briefly: It’s when my ego is quiet that I lose my fears of going my own way