I used to let myself get far too angry about far too many things, especially online. (This is the way I frequently felt.) Even when I was right, the angry way I acted often made me wrong. Even worse from my point of view, the rage I felt toward others was eating at me inside. I was hurting myself.
I spent quite a bit of time thinking about why I got so angry and looking into family issues that contributed. (One of my most vivid childhood memories is of the many times my father would be yelling at me so angrily that I’d watch the veins of his neck swell as he yelled.) I had to retrain myself in a number of ways and change some of my ways of thinking — or at least learn how to manage what I was feeling instead of being destructive.
I still get angry with idiots — and sometimes with non-idiots who just rub me the wrong way — but I’m able to remind myself about my priorities and ask whether anger does any good. It’s very rare that I let myself get as angry and combative as I used to.
I’m happier with myself and I think other people are happier with me.

Hurt people attract others who know what it’s like to feel hurt
We all see bits and pieces of reality; not a one of us sees whole picture
What if emotional baggage we carry isn’t really our core issue?
Freedom of the press is for everyone, not just those recognized by feds
Since I’ve lost status I once had, it’s a shock to see I want it back
Cop’s murder has me pondering why humans kill those they love
What does a man confess about himself when he wants a ‘slut’?
Goodbye, Thomas (1994-2012)