Laura’s face was covered in pain, but she never let herself cry. I’ve known her for more than a decade, but I’d never known her to be happy until the past year. After a previous marriage in which she was misunderstood and lonely, she had finally found real love. Now she was telling me that Daniel was dead.
It’s a raw slice of life that I don’t see very often, so I found it both moving and painful to talk with Laura Sunday afternoon. Her husband of barely more than a year had been dead for a couple of weeks from an auto accident, but I was just finding out about it. Things like this always affect me, but not nearly as much as it affected Laura.
“All my life, I’d been looking for love and I was lucky to find it,” she said. “I was searching all my life, but I don’t regret the wasted years now, because I don’t feel like I lived for nothing. Before Daniel, I felt like, ‘Why am I here?’ Now, it’s different. I fulfilled my dreams and accomplished the love I wanted. There’s nothing I really want to live for now.”
Maybe it’s easier to do hard things when nobody says they’re difficult
Proposals to skip rent payments are rooted in magical thinking
Conservatives betray their own values when they mimic enemies
FRIDAY FUNNIES
‘Cash for clunkers’ was an even bigger clunker than we first realized
We live in Reverse World, where black is white and good is evil

How miserable does someone have to be to ‘troll’ a cute dog picture?
AUDIO: Someone holding a grudge feels like poison from the past
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