When I saw Ryan Friday evening, I knew he was upset. He was just getting to work, but he looked beaten and angry. He sat down to tell me his story.
Ryan’s a young guy who went to buy a car Friday. He took slightly more than $2,000 to a dealership to buy a car that costs about $10,000. After test driving the car and agreeing to a price, he filled out all the paperwork — only to be told at the end that he didn’t make enough money, even though he works full time and has a good record.
He was hurt and angry. It wasn’t just that he needed a car. He felt that he had done everything he’s been told he’s supposed to do as a young adult in this society, but he’s not finding the opportunities he expected — and he’s hearing “no” often enough that he’s getting frustrated. And his frustration is turning to anger.
‘Dad, is there really a Santa Claus?’ Should we lie to kids or tell truth?
Modern obsession with ‘hot girls’ teaches everybody to be shallow
In a cold and disconnected world, it’s very simple to fake happiness
Learning to be an emotional man helped me to overcome numb past
I need responsibility for slaying dragons to protect those I love
Can we find ways to separate love of home from worship of government?
Hermit life looks good as world tries to make me a misanthrope