You might have seen this cartoon dog and these flames before. The artwork has become popular on “memes” which satirize people who are oblivious — or in denial — that their world is falling apart around them.
I feel like the little cartoon dog. I feel as though the world is on fire around me. The economy seems to be collapsing. The political system is in a dangerous shambles. The broader culture is a dysfunctional cesspool which is driven by idiots who are out of touch with reality.
But it’s not just the broader outside world. My own life is burning down, at least by the standards of what I expected and what I wanted — and even by the vision of what I believe is possible for my life.
I’m sitting here passively — in the metaphorical sense — and I’m watching the chaos play out all around me. I’m not doing anything about it because I haven’t figured out how to fix everything. I keep functioning as though everything is normal.
But inside, I am painfully aware that this is not fine. Something has to change.

Trivial distractions keep us from focusing on love and connection
Visit with high school best friend leaves me pondering my old fears
Does mainstream schooling model bring out the worst in teen-agers?
THE McELROY ZOO: Meet Thomas, the aloof loner of my menagerie
Cycles keep us circling through life until we get something right
Little girl helped me figure out why I’m not attracted to her mom
Worshiping the ‘lesser evil’ will always allow evil to rule over you
Some moms can’t handle the job, but they do the best they can
If you accept that you’re a fool, being wrong is a lot less scary