What started long ago as a celebration of independence from the rule of a foreign power has become something very different today. The Fourth of July was once a day when Americans celebrated their independence and their way of life. In too many cases, it’s ended up becoming a worship of state and a celebration of militarism.
As a result, I don’t enjoy as much about the Fourth of July as some people do. I look at the nationalistic elements that have crept in and become dominant for so many people — and I cringe. But that doesn’t mean that I don’t want to love what it originally stood for. And it doesn’t mean that I don’t want to be a part of an extended family celebrating our homes and our lives.
I wrote last year about how people have come to associate words such as “conservative” and “liberal” with political positions. I’m not that kind of conservative and haven’t been for more than 20 years. But I’m a traditionalist in many ways. I’m an odd mix. I love many things about the modern world, but I feel a tug to a past that I’ve never experienced. In the truest sense of the word, I’m a conservative in those ways. There’s much about the values and lifestyle of our past that I want to conserve, and I’m extremely conservative in my own lifestyle.

Why do we consider it shallow to crave beauty in romantic partner?
Assassin or patsy? How can you trust any of the players in this case?

Donald Trump is an evil man, but his political enemies are evil, too
Do we choose to be free people? Or will we live as slaves to mobs?
Modern weddings seem designed to conceal reality of relationships
What if we’ve completely missed the point of loving other people?
Maybe it’s so hard to love others because we don’t love ourselves
What if ‘fixing’ a mental condition changes the person you are?