Where were you a year ago? As 2010 was drawing to a close and 2011 stretched out before you, what did you expect the new year to bring? Have your hopes been met? Or have you been disappointed instead?
The end of the year is always a time of introspection for me. I know the new year is an arbitrary thing that doesn’t mean anything other than what we bring to it, but I still end up thinking a lot about the year I’ve just been through and the year that’s about to start. I evaluate what I wanted from the year just ending and I think hard about what I want from the new one.
This thinking can leave me emotional and introspective, so I’ve been feeling a lot of things strongly this week. I’m impatient about some things. I’m angry at myself about others. I’m determined and focused about yet other things. I’m happier with where I am today than I was a year ago, even though I didn’t make as much progress as I’d hoped.
Every year, the slate is wiped clean and we get a new year, but that doesn’t mean we can wait forever to start the things that matter. We have choices about what to do with each year. If you spend a year wisely, you can build something else on top of that year in the years after that. But if you squander the years — and never start moving toward being the person you need to be or toward doing the things you need to do — you reach a point at which some doors start closing.

Want to return to a simpler world? Say ‘goodbye’ to cheeseburgers
Does every loss of love finally become a case of ‘sour grapes’?
Words on paper don’t give governments the right to rob us
I’m all broken up about ‘draconian’ cuts hitting the federal government
Conservatives have lost their way as few defend individual freedom
Unity sounds nice, but truth is we need freedom to go our own ways
A haunting question: ‘Where is love now, out here in the dark?’
What kind of person are you if there’s not a word to define you?
Who’s the hero of Chick-fil-A wars? Rachel set an example for all of us