What started long ago as a celebration of independence from the rule of a foreign power has become something very different today. The Fourth of July was once a day when Americans celebrated their independence and their way of life. In too many cases, it’s ended up becoming a worship of state and a celebration of militarism.
As a result, I don’t enjoy as much about the Fourth of July as some people do. I look at the nationalistic elements that have crept in and become dominant for so many people — and I cringe. But that doesn’t mean that I don’t want to love what it originally stood for. And it doesn’t mean that I don’t want to be a part of an extended family celebrating our homes and our lives.
I wrote last year about how people have come to associate words such as “conservative” and “liberal” with political positions. I’m not that kind of conservative and haven’t been for more than 20 years. But I’m a traditionalist in many ways. I’m an odd mix. I love many things about the modern world, but I feel a tug to a past that I’ve never experienced. In the truest sense of the word, I’m a conservative in those ways. There’s much about the values and lifestyle of our past that I want to conserve, and I’m extremely conservative in my own lifestyle.

Ten years later, it hurts to know she lost faith in me and gave up
Why do we put off changes that might give meaning to our lives?
Head and heart don’t agree about love, including Valentine’s Day

Could ‘free cities’ — existing inside more restrictive states — be a first step toward freedom?
A year after surreal experience of surgery, I’m still happy to be alive
What can a free society do before an unstable person commits a crime?
Dad who made space for daughter reminds me little moments matter
I need a romantic partner who’s already facing her inner demons
Sick of partisan political conflicts? Join me in taking a 90-day break