Are you a coward? For much of my life, I’ve been one — at least a large part of the time. I’ve drifted along avoiding things that scared me, acting as though I could somehow cheat my fears without having to face them. I’m at the point in life where I can’t do that anymore.
I can either face the fears and become who I’m supposed to be or I can go back to hiding in cowardice. Now that I understand the truth about what I’ve done, though, I don’t think I can put it back into a box and hide it on a shelf. I have to confront the fears — and become the person God made me to be.
I’ve been thinking a lot about this issue since the first of the year. Something happened that made me ask myself whether I was going to continue being less than my best or if I intended to make the changes necessary to be who I wanted to be. If I’d realized all the implications of that when I started thinking about it, I might have run. But I didn’t. And once I let myself go down that road, I didn’t have any choice but to follow some trails to their logical conclusion.
A ‘faux father’ loves being adored, but a real father is there full-time
What if we’re more talented than our inner fears allow us to admit?
THE McELROY ZOO: Meet Tommy, who needs a home before winter
Visit with high school best friend leaves me pondering my old fears
Another ‘Atlas Shrugged’ moment: ‘Reasonable Profits Board’ proposed
Defense mechanism led me to repress unacceptable emotions
Advice to fast food restaurant execs: stop ‘innovating,’ do the basics right
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