When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
Reconciliation can start with the courage to make one phone call
Trivial objects have power to be containers for strong emotions
It’s hard to take a scary chance, but success can be breathtaking
FRIDAY FUNNIES
If principles of First Amendment still apply, principles of Second do, too
2-day-old baby reminds me that miracles still happen every day
It might not matter who’s right; just fix the problem and move on
AUDIO: What if she was right? Maybe I am the real ‘product’
THE McELROY ZOO: Meet Thomas, the aloof loner of my menagerie