When I saw Ryan Friday evening, I knew he was upset. He was just getting to work, but he looked beaten and angry. He sat down to tell me his story.
Ryan’s a young guy who went to buy a car Friday. He took slightly more than $2,000 to a dealership to buy a car that costs about $10,000. After test driving the car and agreeing to a price, he filled out all the paperwork — only to be told at the end that he didn’t make enough money, even though he works full time and has a good record.
He was hurt and angry. It wasn’t just that he needed a car. He felt that he had done everything he’s been told he’s supposed to do as a young adult in this society, but he’s not finding the opportunities he expected — and he’s hearing “no” often enough that he’s getting frustrated. And his frustration is turning to anger.
Why do we paint ourselves into joyless corners with no way out?
Youth and death are bookends pointing toward truth between
Few people want to admit it, but our society rewards conformity
In spite of the ridiculous imagery, I still want to rescue my princess
Lesson from U2: Rejection doesn’t necessarily mean it’s time to give up
Her dad didn’t want to help her, so here’s a jack-o’-lantern for Hannah
I’m exhausted and numb from placing trust in the wrong people