I kept thinking this week about the scenario I mentioned a few days ago about slaves wanting to escape. It occurs to me that this metaphor works for many of the situations in our lives. What lessons can we draw from it?
My mind keeps going back to those plantation slaves a couple of centuries ago. There were many of them. There were few people guarding them. Why didn’t more of them escape? Or at least make serious attempts?
The answer I keep coming to disturbs me, because it condemns me for things I’ve done at various points in my own life — maybe even including the present — because it suggests that the reason is fear and a cowardly need to be certain. Escaping doesn’t come through fear or chasing certainty. It comes from exercising openness and faith. Most of us are naturally afraid of the uncertainty in the distance, so we cling to whatever kind of bondage we’ve gotten ourselves into.
There are a lot of things I’m not certain about. In fact, “I don’t know,” is something I say frequently — and I’m comfortable with that. I know that if I insist on certainty before I take a risk, I’m dooming myself to a kind of misery stuck with what I have. I say that because I’ve done it before.
What do we prove with huge houses we can’t afford to pay for or even fill?
Starved for love: Portrait of a plastic person living a little plastic life
How miserable does someone have to be to ‘troll’ a cute dog picture?
Too many voices with little to say: Politics matters less and less to me
Stop using children as pawns to promote adult political agendas
76-year-old George is a showman who loves making audience smile
What’s at the root of objections to real freedom? Paternalism
Without growth on similar paths, two people drift apart, love dies