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By David McElroy · May 9, 2026

I’ve been making book recommendations for many years, but I’m not sure I’ve ever actually written out a formal list. I’ve done that now — and it was a lot harder than I thought it would be.

Although I can strongly recommend each of the 10 books on this list, I can’t say these are the 10 books I’d most recommend over everything else. There are a few that would be on any list of my favorite books, but beyond that, there might be 40 or 50 that I feel equally strongly about.

Even worse, I feel as though I would have different lists for different kinds of people and for different circumstances.

As a result, I think I’m going to try to maintain a top 1o list, but the books on that list are going to change over time. In addition, I’m going to add some speciality lists at some point — because these first 10 do no more than scratch the surface of what I’d like you to read.

To see where I’ve started — and see the reasons for each choice — check out this link.

It’s a work in progress, but few things are as exciting as talking about great books, so I’m glad I’ve finally at least started.

If you buy anything using one of the links on the list, I will get a tiny commission from Amazon for the sale.

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As part of my effort to rid my life of social media, I will no longer display links to my two Instagram accounts here. Those accounts will be dormant for the time being and will eventually be deleted. I plan to have a method for displaying photos here instead, but the solutions I’ve tested so far have been disappointing. I’m still working on it.

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I always get frustrated when I take photos of the I always get frustrated when I take photos of the moon, but I always seem to come back to trying it again. When I was driving home tonight, I loved the way the moon looked with clouds tightly bunched around it, so I thought I’d make a quick picture and use it. Since the longest lens I have for my A7 is 240mm, I can’t get the resolution that I really need, So I end up trying all sorts of things in Photoshop that are really beyond my capabilities. This is better than what I started with, but it’s not what I might be able to get with an 800mm lens. I might be complaining about the results even if I had better equipment, though. At some point, I just have to accept that I should leave sky photos to photographers with better equipment and better skills. 😃
It’s too bad Meg can’t relax a little more, huh? I It’s too bad Meg can’t relax a little more, huh? I’m obviously kidding, because this little girl has quite a bit of confidence when she’s hanging out with me — and she has more confidence around the three boys every day, so that makes me happy. She’s been a great addition to the household.
By the time I left the office about 5:30 p.m. Frid By the time I left the office about 5:30 p.m. Friday, some light rain from the approaching hurricane was starting to fall. It’s been completely cloudy in Birmingham all day because of the bands of clouds pushing north from the Gulf of Mexico. About halfway home, I noticed that the sky had suddenly started exhibiting this beautiful orange glow to the west. So even though it was far too cloudy for us to see a real sunset, the light was still colorful enough and bright enough to punch through at the horizon. So I stopped on the Cahaba River bridge on I-459 and caught this quick shot. Within just a couple of minutes, the clouds had covered up the color — and the rain started getting a bit harder. By morning, we should have howling winds and serious thunderstorms. Let’s just hope there are no tornados spawned by this storm in our area.
I need some new portraits of myself, so I tried a I need some new portraits of myself, so I tried a few shots after I got home late Monday night. This one wasn’t great, so I’ll try again later, but I can use it until I have time to shoot another. I was too lazy to light this one properly — and it shows. 😺
Sunset, Leeds, Alabama — August 27, 2026 Sunset, Leeds, Alabama — August 27, 2026
Sunset, Leeds, Alabama — August 19, 2026 Sunset, Leeds, Alabama — August 19, 2026
When I got home at midnight Monday, I was doing so When I got home at midnight Monday, I was doing some work in the studio and Oliver wanted to join me, so I showed him around to acclimate him to the place again. He rarely goes in there, but I have pictures of him in that studio on the night I brought him home as a kitten. 😺
Earlier this week, I found two photos of Lucy and Earlier this week, I found two photos of Lucy and me that I had never seen. I loved finding the pictures, but seeing these photos left me thinking about the effect it has on us when we lose an animal we love — and it was also a reminder of how much my life has changed for the last nine months it’s been since I lost her. I wrote an essay about this. You can find it as the most recent post at davidmcelroy.org right now if you’re interested. I really do miss this sweet girl.
When I take lightning pictures, I’m always hoping When I take lightning pictures, I’m always hoping to get just one usable photo, but I got two dramatic images tonight. You might recognize the water tower and communication tower that you’ve seen in many of my sunset photos. This is about a mile from my house in Leeds, which is just east of Birmingham.
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As the weather gets cooler, the boys are enjoying As the weather gets cooler, the boys are enjoying the heated pad more and more. Alex is experiencing the bliss that a human might find it a sauna late Monday night. I haven’t yet seen Meg use the heated pad, but the other three love it.
As I left the house to head to the other office Mo As I left the house to head to the other office Monday afternoon, Alex made it clear that he was eager to get back to sleep.
At the end of the day, I always like to make sure At the end of the day, I always like to make sure I know where each of the cats is, so I was slightly concerned around midnight when I couldn’t find Meg. Alex and Oliver had been chasing each other between the bedroom and the office — and Sam was watching — but Meg was nowhere to be found. After looking carefully, though, I discovered she was in one of the caves of their castle, with the top of her head poking through the hole at the top of the cave. She seemed content to just watch the older boys as they ran across my desk.
It’s 3 a.m. and Oliver has just jumped into my lap It’s 3 a.m. and Oliver has just jumped into my lap looking for a nap spot. He’s purring hard as he makes biscuits on my leg and tummy. 😺
Late Saturday night, all of the cats except Sam ha Late Saturday night, all of the cats except Sam have been engaging in a game of chase between the bedroom and office. A few minutes after the game ended, Alex was relaxing on the bed and Meg came to stare at him. I couldn’t tell whether she was studying her adversary or trying to bait him into rejoining the chase.
Late Saturday afternoon, Sam is keeping his eyes o Late Saturday afternoon, Sam is keeping his eyes on the neighborhood at sunset.
I’ve been away from home overnight for the last fe I’ve been away from home overnight for the last few nights, so I haven’t gotten to spend nearly as much time with the felines as usual. Meg is willing to tolerate me for a few minutes, but Oliver is the one who’s really wanted to spend time in my lap. That little guy is so affectionate that he needs attention. I’m about to leave again, but I’m trying to make sure I spend some time with each of them — even though Meg would be just as happy if I fed her and let her go back to her cave to sleep.
From the CritterCam: It’s almost 2 a.m. and I’m no From the CritterCam: It’s almost 2 a.m. and I’m not home yet, but the webcam shows that Sam has just jumped onto the heated pad for a warm nap in my office chair.
It was a year ago today when cancer took Lucy away It was a year ago today when cancer took Lucy away from me. I still miss her every day.
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I’m seeing a lot of simplistic and dishonest explanations right now for the current rioting in France. Those on the populist far right claim it’s all about Muslim immigrants to France disrupting the culture. Their message is that this sort of thing is going to happen in the U.S. unless “we defend the border.” On the far left, socialists and their fellow travelers claim the riots are all about wealthy people in France not paying enough taxes, resulting in cuts to government services. The truth is far more complicated, but it’s rooted in the decline of population growth in Europe. There simply aren’t enough young workers paying into the tax system anymore, so cuts in social services were inevitable. There is genuine cultural tension as more and more people immigrate from other countries, but government cuts to education and other services are even more important to what’s happening. The situation is complicated, so don’t let dishonest people with U.S. political agendas tell you that it happens to support whatever they were already promoting for partisan reasons.

Here’s another reason to appreciate the cats in your life: New research involving 93 countries found that places with more cats per person also tended to have happier people. The researchers say the finding fits with previous evidence that living with pets can reduce loneliness and stress while providing companionship, emotional attachment and social support. The study doesn’t prove that cats cause greater happiness, but it certainly adds to the evidence that sharing your home — and your life — with a cat might be good for you.

The company that owns Facebook and Instagram is heavily promoting its new AI-based software assistant called Muse, but people who are using it as it was designed are incredibly foolish. An early adopter of the software discovered that a few days ago when he advertised an item for sale on Facebook Marketplace — and he inadvertently gave Muse full authority to act on his behalf. The software agreed to a lowball offer made by another Facebook user and then gave that man the home address of the man for whom he was an agent. The software told the buyer that the seller was home and waiting for him. When the buyer showed up and waited angrily, the would-be buyer left an angry review for the man. And this angry man had the seller’s home address. It was only well after that that the software reported what it had done and admitted it had made a mistake. I won’t be putting that much power into the hands of any software. I think anyone who agrees to such terms is a fool. And the software’s user agreement says you’re responsible for purchases the software makes in your name. Nope.

Meet my new girlfriend. Her name is Meg. And she’s my little sweetheart. A couple of months ago, a neighbor across the street told me about a new stray in the neighborhood that she and I were both soon feeding. The cat had been very skittish about contact and she had a lot of scabs and parasites in her fur, but a trip to the vet last week revealed that she was otherwise in good health. The vet estimates her to be 1 to 2 years old. I named her for Meg Murry, the 13-year-old protagonist of Madeleine L’Engle’s wonderful book, “A Wrinkle in Time.” (Please read the book. Don’t watch the horrible movie.) Since we lost Lucy almost a year ago, it seems appropriate that we finally have a new little girl to join the household. She’s already captured my heart, but Alex, Oliver and Sam aren’t there quite yet.

There’s nothing socially acceptable that’s as dangerous as drinking alcohol. Most people grow up being told to “drink responsibly” — and all of us see people abusing this drug in one way or another — but the truth is that drinking alcohol is always a terrible risk. The alcohol in these drinks is toxic and the human liver has to work hard to filter the toxins out. What most people don’t realize is that alcohol is classified as a known carcinogen by the World Health Organization — because of the well-established connection between imbibing and various cancers. Many people have taken refuge behind the idea that light or moderate drinking might be safe, but a new study shows that drinking even one drink a day increases the risks of 10 types of cancer. When I was a teen-ager, I looked around and saw the negative effects that this behavior had on a lot of people and decided not to start drinking, so I’ve never even tried this poison. The evidence keeps piling up that I was lucky to have come to that conclusion early.

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