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I’m no longer a sharecropper working on a digital plantation

By David McElroy · August 16, 2026

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Unless you’re an idiot or a masochist, you wouldn’t apply for that job. I wouldn’t, either. I would laugh at it and mock the intelligence of anybody who would fall for such a one-sided deal.

But when I’m honest with myself, I realize that’s what I’ve been doing for years on social media.

I started joining social media platforms — Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and even Threads — starting in about 2007. The value proposition was simple: You connect with your friends and anybody else you want to connect with. Your friends will be shown everything you post. You’ll see everything they post. And there’s no charge for this. What a deal.

As the social media companies grew more popular, they changed the deal. They introduced algorithms which determined which tiny portion of your posts would be shown to your friends. Then the companies started randomly showing you posts you never asked for — from people you’ve never heard of, about things you don’t care about.

But we put up with it, because we had developed a weird addiction to social media. We created all of the editorial content for companies which have gotten fabulously wealthy. We’ve been bewildered sharecroppers on a digital plantation.

Today, I’m starting the process of walking away from all of that. This is not what I signed up for.

I’ve dipped a toe into these waters before. I’ve left Facebook for months at a time on multiple occasions. I’ve threatened to stop posting to Instagram. I abandoned my Twitter account and I never used the Threads account I set up.

My tentative attempts to walk away have been unsuccessful for one simple reason. I’ve been addicted to the attention that comes from posting.

I like having a place to post my thoughts and links and photos. I’ve liked being able to connect with people who agreed with my iconoclastic thoughts. I’ve been addicted to the “likes” and “loves.” I’ve enjoyed the public approval far more than I want to admit.

But Facebook’s algorithm doesn’t care for the things I post. Even though I have close to a thousand “followers” on there, my links and text posts were routinely shown to very few people — sometimes fewer than a dozen.

What’s the point of composing my thoughts or editing my photos or posting my links if the platform is going to hide them — so that it can show my friends and followers more faux entertainment, as it turns itself into TikTok Lite?

On Instagram, I have many followers for my two accounts, especially my animal account. At one time, I could post a photo and instantly have dozens of reactions and comments. Today, the platform shows my photos to so few people that most of my posts are “liked” by the same half a dozen people, if I’m lucky.

I’ve invested a lot of time and effort into Facebook and Instagram. I finally realized that I am working for free for a company which no longer even keeps the bargain that we struck when I signed up.

If I’m going to work for free — to write essays and make videos — I might as well limit my efforts to somewhere I’m in control. And that’s why I’m going to focus on my own website as the place to post my work. I’m not writing material that’s designed to attract a mass audience — as it was when I used to write political content years ago — but I’m writing what I need to write.

And on here, there’s no moderator or algorithm to dictate who sees what I publish.

Here’s the thing. I’ve been a professional writer and photographer before, but I haven’t been paid for my creative work for a long time. I’d love to be paid again — for writing or for films — but if I’m going to end up just publishing for my wonderful regular readers anyway, why not stick to the place where I can control it? Why keep giving my work to social media platforms which offer a lousy deal for us?

There are other reasons to get away from social media, at least for me. I’ve written recently about the cesspool that social media has become, so that’s part of it. But I’ve also written — quite a long time ago — about how social media is a psychological trap for those of us who were raised by narcissists.

There’s another issue, too. When you have constant access to faux entertainment that presents itself to you in a long and endless scroll, it’s easy to waste your time. I’ve done that more than I want to admit. Many of my friends do it. I’m constantly being barraged with social media links that people liked and shared with me.

Even though a few of them are momentarily entertaining, they’re doing nothing more than wasting time that I should be spending on creating my own work. I literally don’t care about 98 percent of what I watch on Facebook — that I run across myself or get from others — but I somehow end up wasting time on it anyway.

It’s even worse than the trap of watching junk television. I gave up watching television many years ago — after reading Neil Postman’s “Amusing Ourselves to Death” — but I somehow stumbled into something even more dangerous and more time-consuming.

I thought social media was a waste of time when it first started, but I set up a Facebook account because a girlfriend wanted me to. It seemed like a harmless way to make her happy. It turned into a tremendous waste of time. I’m not blaming her. I’m not even blaming the platforms. I’m blaming myself for sticking around so long — even after I knew it was a mistake for me.

My time on this Earth is limited. The time I spend on these platforms is a terrible use of my time, whether it’s material I find myself or random junk that others send to me. I’ve been a terrible steward of my time in this respect.

That is changing, starting today.

It will take me a few days to figure out how to back away from various bits and pieces of my social media life, but it’s all going away. I’ll eventually have a way to post my photos — the ones currently going to Instagram — here on my site. I’ll have more to say as I figure it out.

In the days ahead, I plan to use the time I’ve been wasting on social media — either creating or consuming — on my own work.

I have multiple books I want to finish writing. I have a short film to make soon. I’d like to make feature films. I have a lot more to say about ideas I care about, both through essays and video.

None of those are possible if I keep wasting my time and attention on social media.

I’m finished consuming social media. I’m finished giving my work away to the companies.

If I’m going to work for nothing, I’m going to do it for myself. I’m finished being a sharecropper on a vast digital plantation. I’m walking out. Starting today.

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As part of my effort to rid my life of social media, I will no longer display links to my two Instagram accounts here. Those accounts will be dormant for the time being and will eventually be deleted. I plan to have a method for displaying photos here instead, but the solutions I’ve tested so far have been disappointing. I’m still working on it.

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When I got home at midnight Monday, I was doing so When I got home at midnight Monday, I was doing some work in the studio and Oliver wanted to join me, so I showed him around to acclimate him to the place again. He rarely goes in there, but I have pictures of him in that studio on the night I brought him home as a kitten. 😺
Earlier this week, I found two photos of Lucy and Earlier this week, I found two photos of Lucy and me that I had never seen. I loved finding the pictures, but seeing these photos left me thinking about the effect it has on us when we lose an animal we love — and it was also a reminder of how much my life has changed for the last nine months it’s been since I lost her. I wrote an essay about this. You can find it as the most recent post at davidmcelroy.org right now if you’re interested. I really do miss this sweet girl.
When I take lightning pictures, I’m always hoping When I take lightning pictures, I’m always hoping to get just one usable photo, but I got two dramatic images tonight. You might recognize the water tower and communication tower that you’ve seen in many of my sunset photos. This is about a mile from my house in Leeds, which is just east of Birmingham.
For those who are in places where it’s miserably h For those who are in places where it’s miserably hot today, here is a minute of light rain and gentle thunder from my back yard late Saturday afternoon. It’s very relaxing to stand at my back door and watch this, especially since the heat is pretty mild today — 80 degrees (about 26 celsius) — for July in the American South.
Alex was willing to cooperate with me for a new po Alex was willing to cooperate with me for a new portrait late Wednesday night. It’s been roughly three and a half years now since the cold night when I was able to lure him out from behind a garbage dumpster into a trap — but I don’t think he’s sorry at this point that he fell for the trick. 😺
This is the face of a man who’s thrilled that the This is the face of a man who’s thrilled that the weekend is finally here. It was a very long (and productive) week, but the time has finally come that I have time to write and read and think. Late Friday night, I’m at the McDonald’s near my house with a Diet Dr Pepper and a MacBook. For me, it’s like Cheers without the booze.
Donald Trump has figured out who to blame for the Donald Trump has figured out who to blame for the the D.C. Reflecting Pool turning green. The dastardly deed was carried out by a specially trained squad of Antifa cats trained by the Far Left. It’s not his fault. Arrest all the cats! #satire #parody
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This little guy is confused — and I don’t blame hi This little guy is confused — and I don’t blame him. This is presumably his first night inside a house, so everything is new to him, including the smells and noises. He keeps coming to me to ask to be picked up, at which point he purrs hard, but then he quickly decides he wants down. But once I put him down, he demands to be picked up again. He seems to be trying to decide what to think about this bizarre development. As I told him earlier, I would be just as confused and concerned if I were suddenly removed from the environment I’d always known and held against my will. I suspect he’ll be happy with the long-run results, but I feel bad for him tonight.
If all goes according to schedule, the stray tuxed If all goes according to schedule, the stray tuxedo cat will be going to my vet for an evaluation Tuesday. He’s in the house this evening for some more acclimation to the environment — separated from my other three cats, of course — and he seems cautious but reasonably happy so far.
From the CritterCam: Early Sunday afternoon, Sam w From the CritterCam: Early Sunday afternoon, Sam was asleep in the cat bad on my desk and Alex was sleeping on the desk next to him when some noise outside the side of the house caught their attention.
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The stray tuxedo cat is hanging out inside my hous The stray tuxedo cat is hanging out inside my house again Friday evening. My current plan is to take him to my vet Tuesday — after Labor Day Monday — and then start the process of acclimating him to my cats. Those three are not going to be happy campers, but it should end well eventually.
Alex is on his way home from the vet, where he had Alex is on his way home from the vet, where he had his annual shots. He didn’t like it any more than his brothers did Tuesday.
Late Tuesday night, Oliver is finally starting to Late Tuesday night, Oliver is finally starting to forgive me for taking him to the vet for his annual shots today.
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From the CritterCam: Since Alex didn’t make it on From the CritterCam: Since Alex didn’t make it on this trip to the vet, he’s at home by himself just hanging out on the cat bed on my desk.
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It hasn’t happened yet, but there’s a possibility that I might be taking in a fourth feline. A couple of months ago, a cat-loving neighbor asked whether I’d seen a “tuxedo cat” hanging out in the neighborhood. I hadn’t, but this guy eventually wandered past my house a few weeks later — and we haven’t been able to find evidence that he has a home. I’ve been giving him water and food for the last week and he finally let me pet him two nights ago. He’s purred for me two nights in a row and he let me take a low-quality selfie with him Thursday night. Tonight, though, he let me pick him up and bring him inside to look around. This went surprisingly well, as you can see from this photo. I don’t know whether he’ll be joining the family, but I’m certain that Alex, Oliver and Sam would vote no, at least until they get to know him. I’m trying to make certain he doesn’t have a home, but if he does join us, what do you suppose his name will be?

It turns out that the radical far left has been training “Antifa cats” to sabotage anything important to Donald Trump. Everything he did was perfect. Honest. It was all the cats’ fault. Arrest all the cats! This is the latest of my ridiculous satirical shorts. Please go watch it. Then “like” it and subscribe. Please. I’m begging you. (Too much?) Although a couple of the previous videos have had views in the hundreds, most have still been seen by fewer than 20 people. So I seem to be having trouble letting people know that page exists.

Here’s the latest of my ridiculous parody shorts. It crossed my mind Tuesday to wonder what a slick and fast-talking car dealer might do right now to try to turn the high price of gasoline to his advantage. So I conceived of a fat and lovable character who tried to sell cars that don’t use any fuel — and then I started wondering if it would be funnier if all the characters were felines. Designing the King Cashpaw character took about four hours, but the rest took only another four hours, so this was a relatively quick piece that virtually wrote itself. I know it’s almost impossible for these parody videos to find a larger audience, but at least they amuse me — and there are 19 of them on my YouTube page now. The first few were very limited, but they’re getting more complex.

The Republican Party is dead. It still exists in name, of course, but it’s nothing but a shell. All that’s left are idiots and stooges and con men of the MAGA party. When Donald Trump is gone — which won’t be long — those populist idiots and pragmatic fools will have no one to follow. Democrats will thrive. They will take more power than ever and they will push the federal government further to the radical far left than ever. When that happens, don’t just blame Trump if you’re a conservative. Blame every person who has claimed to be a conservative and has given up on principles, character and everything else that Republicans once claimed to stand for. As someone who worked as a GOP political consultant for many years, this is disgusting and disturbing to me. Those who have enabled Trump to have almost unchecked power are going to be shocked when they see what they will unleash in the long run. It’s been plain all along what this narcissistic con man is. It’s your fault that you chose to pretend not to see what he really is.

We are ruled by the dumbest and most incompetent people among us — and we have a system which allows stupid and irresponsible people to force the costs of their idiocy onto smarter and wiser people. Can we get away with that? Yes, for quite some time. But we eventually reach a point at which the dumbest of the dumb — who are habitual liars and mentally ill fools — lead us to the disasters and destruction that some of us have seen coming for years. We are approaching that point. And yet most of the idiots around us still wave their rhetorical banners of support for the evil people who are leading us to ruin — and all of them point their fingers at someone else, never noticing that their own enthusiastic support of evil is to blame. When things finally fall apart, blame yourself for your blindness to the evil, not whoever happens to be in power when it happens.

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