When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
As I faced my father’s narcissism, I had to confront who I’d become
When Demopublicans and Republicrats clash, you lose
If you want life outside of hatred, get away from political cesspool
Time to face facts: Most people don’t really want individual liberty
We learn lessons as we mature, but it’s usually too late by then
We’ve welcomed visitors from 57 countries and 48 U.S. states so far
How does modern culture escape ‘little boxes made of ticky tacky’?
Too many voices with little to say: Politics matters less and less to me
Have choice between two loves? Failing to choose may lose both