When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
What if a key to knowing what to do is built into everybody’s gut?
Maybe we’re doomed to replay past until we finally get it right
We all love stories, but principles should trump anecdotes in debate
Unexpected phone call can turn world from happy to miserable
Evil media bias? It depends on which lens you’re looking through that day
Hiding anger was a survival skill, so you might not know I’m angry
Was he angry to lose his family? Or because he lost his control?
I want to live a life my kids will want to emulate as they grow up
Without growth on similar paths, two people drift apart, love dies