Everybody gets a trophy these days, because everybody is special. Except, well, most people aren’t special. Not yet. Not until they’ve done something exceptional.
At one of the nation’s best high schools, a teacher stood at graduation last Friday and told his departing seniors something that shouldn’t be remarkable. (See the video of the speech below and the full text underneath that.) What English teacher David McCullough said should be obvious, but in a world where children grow up being told they’re special just for being themselves — without having to earn recognition by doing something with their potential — it’s a radical step to tell the truth.
“You are not special,” McCullough said. “You are not exceptional. Contrary to what your u9 soccer trophy suggests, your glowing seventh grade report card, despite every assurance of a certain corpulent purple dinosaur, that nice Mister Rogers and your batty Aunt Sylvia, no matter how often your maternal caped crusader has swooped in to save you, you’re nothing special.”

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