Why do people remain in situations in which they’re unhappy? Why do people hate their jobs, but remain there? Why do people in miserable marriages remain, frequently producing children to join in the dysfunction? And why do people who see the sickness of a failing political system remain loyal to it rather than look for alternatives?
I suspect it’s largely because people have trouble dealing with uncertainty. They might be miserable with what they have, but they’re unwilling to give it up until they have proof that the alternative is better. They’re scared to step out into the uncertainty of taking a chance and they’re scared to have faith that they can build something better.
It’s uncertainty that makes people terribly uncomfortable with certain situations and even certain art. In the work of M.C. Escher, we see a perfect example. Instead of painting normal and understandable things in the world around us, this brilliant Dutch artist created works that feel uncomfortable to many people, because much of it feels contradictory and uncertain, such as the example above. (Which way is the water flowing, anyway? How can what you’re looking at even exist?)
Trust and spontaneous order don’t require heavy hand of the state
‘Tolerant’ left seethes with hate if you don’t accept ‘gender theory’
Tell me the music you listen to and that’ll reveal a lot about you
Insanity is part of being human – and we’re all potentially unstable
I wanted to be Capt. James Kirk; have I become Ignatius J. Reilly?
Visit with high school best friend leaves me pondering my old fears
What role does shame play in turning kids from lives of crime?
My old fear of looking foolish is strong incentive to do good work
No matter how admired you are, your work won’t make you special