I used to let myself get far too angry about far too many things, especially online. (This is the way I frequently felt.) Even when I was right, the angry way I acted often made me wrong. Even worse from my point of view, the rage I felt toward others was eating at me inside. I was hurting myself.
I spent quite a bit of time thinking about why I got so angry and looking into family issues that contributed. (One of my most vivid childhood memories is of the many times my father would be yelling at me so angrily that I’d watch the veins of his neck swell as he yelled.) I had to retrain myself in a number of ways and change some of my ways of thinking — or at least learn how to manage what I was feeling instead of being destructive.
I still get angry with idiots — and sometimes with non-idiots who just rub me the wrong way — but I’m able to remind myself about my priorities and ask whether anger does any good. It’s very rare that I let myself get as angry and combative as I used to.
I’m happier with myself and I think other people are happier with me.

I’m weary of degenerate society where my values aren’t welcome
How can you help someone who doesn’t really want to keep living?
Yes, Trump is scary and crazy, but fear the immoral system, not him
You’re wrong! And if you don’t agree with me, you’re an evil, lying moron
Autumn scents send subtle signals every year that it’s time for change
If politics sends you into a rage, is it really a good use of your time?
What will you do when ‘electing the right people’ doesn’t change things?
Despite death, finally finding love made life worth it for new widow
I’ve always done my best work when I’m allowed to fix things