When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
FRIDAY FUNNIES
Some rewards are great enough to ignore risks and take big chances
What’s the best word for those of us who just want to be left alone?
If you need vacation from spouse, maybe you married wrong person
Being loved is one of life’s gifts, but joy of loving is even greater
My life will matter only if I can show love and meaning to others
Unless your spirit’s been broken, your flaws will always be hidden
Confirmation bias means most of us assume our opponents are ‘morans’