Are you a coward? For much of my life, I’ve been one — at least a large part of the time. I’ve drifted along avoiding things that scared me, acting as though I could somehow cheat my fears without having to face them. I’m at the point in life where I can’t do that anymore.
I can either face the fears and become who I’m supposed to be or I can go back to hiding in cowardice. Now that I understand the truth about what I’ve done, though, I don’t think I can put it back into a box and hide it on a shelf. I have to confront the fears — and become the person God made me to be.
I’ve been thinking a lot about this issue since the first of the year. Something happened that made me ask myself whether I was going to continue being less than my best or if I intended to make the changes necessary to be who I wanted to be. If I’d realized all the implications of that when I started thinking about it, I might have run. But I didn’t. And once I let myself go down that road, I didn’t have any choice but to follow some trails to their logical conclusion.
How would we see the gang war in Texas if the faces had been black?
Forget your partner’s best traits; worst traits predict your future
Libertarian freedom vs. conservative tradition leads to culture clash
Santa Claus at a loss when Rosie comes to tell him her troubles
People who confront harsh reality are ones who survive bad times
Fetish for privatizing misses point; it’s having a choice that matters
If ‘bigots’ can lose their rights, will your rights be next to go?
Until I can have the family I need, I’ll spend my Thanksgiving alone
Thirst for love and understanding drives all of us until it’s quenched