Are you a coward? For much of my life, I’ve been one — at least a large part of the time. I’ve drifted along avoiding things that scared me, acting as though I could somehow cheat my fears without having to face them. I’m at the point in life where I can’t do that anymore.
I can either face the fears and become who I’m supposed to be or I can go back to hiding in cowardice. Now that I understand the truth about what I’ve done, though, I don’t think I can put it back into a box and hide it on a shelf. I have to confront the fears — and become the person God made me to be.
I’ve been thinking a lot about this issue since the first of the year. Something happened that made me ask myself whether I was going to continue being less than my best or if I intended to make the changes necessary to be who I wanted to be. If I’d realized all the implications of that when I started thinking about it, I might have run. But I didn’t. And once I let myself go down that road, I didn’t have any choice but to follow some trails to their logical conclusion.
Those we love change who we are and reflect who we’re becoming
‘What if I asked you to marry me right now, without knowing more?’
Why do Birmingham taxpayers give $500,000 yearly to college sports?
Storms can end without warning, bringing hope of blue skies ahead
U.S. debt per capita worse than basket cases such as Greece
I feel despair about evil tonight, but my cats offer some comfort
Will a mechanical body allow you to live forever in a few decades?
Choice of spouse alters everything about future for you and your kids
Identity crisis might lead to integration of my inner selves