When I saw Ryan Friday evening, I knew he was upset. He was just getting to work, but he looked beaten and angry. He sat down to tell me his story.
Ryan’s a young guy who went to buy a car Friday. He took slightly more than $2,000 to a dealership to buy a car that costs about $10,000. After test driving the car and agreeing to a price, he filled out all the paperwork — only to be told at the end that he didn’t make enough money, even though he works full time and has a good record.
He was hurt and angry. It wasn’t just that he needed a car. He felt that he had done everything he’s been told he’s supposed to do as a young adult in this society, but he’s not finding the opportunities he expected — and he’s hearing “no” often enough that he’s getting frustrated. And his frustration is turning to anger.
Powerful emotions come and go, so it’s worth noting if one stays
On National Dog Day, remember how love can change any of us
Yes, I truly appreciate your flaws; they point the way to your worth
Childhood programming makes it hard to believe I’m ‘good enough’
Without God, my unloving heart can’t truly love unlovable people
Youth and death are bookends pointing toward truth between
Pride can drive dumb behaviors, even if subject is just car lights