Does this ever happens to you? Some issue pops up in the news or there’s some new action in society — by government or a company or a private organization — and you instantly know what you think about it. An action is completely wrong. It’s clear-cut. Nobody with principles could see it differently.
But then you talk to somebody else who’s obviously intelligent and informed, but he sees it completely different from how you see it. Then you talk to someone else and discover that this person has an entirely different point of view from either you or the other guy.
“Those idiots!” you mutter darkly to yourself. “It’s so obvious. How can they be so blind?!”
This happens in politics all the time. I hear people saying that their opponents are dishonest, stupid, crazy or evil. The opponents tend to be equally sure that you’re dishonest, stupid, crazy or evil. How can we come to such different conclusions?
I think the people who disagree with me about politics or social policy tend to be simply wrong, not evil or stupid or crazy. My thought has been that if you can understand their assumptions and their ways of looking at the world, their conclusions will at least make sense, even if you still think they’re completely wrong. You can understand that people of good will and sound brains can disagree.

Living behind a mask means you won’t allow real self to be loved
Until I can have the family I need, I’ll spend my Thanksgiving alone
Without community, we no longer know each other, in life or death
When politicians insist the ‘war on drugs’ is working, they’re just following majoritarian incentives
Just $12 fed mom and her girls, but bigger challenges lie ahead
Unhappiness can’t hide forever when life has gone very wrong
If there are exceptions to free speech, it’s not really free speech, is it?
Listening to our own inner voice can be the toughest thing we do