Nothing is more certain than death — so why does the approach of death always surprise me?
People die of cancer every day. The disease is so common that most of us don’t even think much about it. I certainly don’t. Even though I had breast cancer more than 10 years ago, I still don’t think about getting cancer and dying from it. And I don’t think about it happening to my friends.
I have a friend who had a routine cancer screening — a lung scan — about a year ago. He was a smoker, so it was supposed to give an early warning if there was anything wrong.
The scan showed what could be a couple of small tumors on his lung. After a biopsy confirmed it was cancer, those two small nodules were removed through surgery. Then he went through months of chemotherapy. And now he’s had another scan to see whether it worked.
He found out this evening that the cancer has metastasized — to his lymph nodes and his liver. And now that I fear death might be coming for him, I don’t know what to feel. In the end, nobody cheats death.

I’ve jumped off a career cliff and now I have six months to find net
New year is great time to resolve to cut toxic folks out of your life
Why do we often attract the folks who are most destructive for us?
I struggle to fix the imperfection in myself and world around me
Financial ignorance from your TV: Gold may not be around next year
Pride can drive dumb behaviors, even if subject is just car lights
No matter how admired you are, your work won’t make you special
Dear Donald Trump: Want a deal? You can buy my transcripts cheap