When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
Trump’s rabid defenders selling their souls for a narcissistic liar
Inner peace requires breaking free of your defense mechanisms
My father taught me not to trust; that’s been very tough to change
Only certainty of life is that every one of us crosses River Styx alone
The ‘man in the mirror’ always turns out to be our worst enemy
Without empathy and persistence, high IQ is just a cheap parlor trick
The things you do in life are largely determined by who you decide to be
Competent, beautiful girl mirrors what I’d love to have in daughter