Does this ever happens to you? Some issue pops up in the news or there’s some new action in society — by government or a company or a private organization — and you instantly know what you think about it. An action is completely wrong. It’s clear-cut. Nobody with principles could see it differently.
But then you talk to somebody else who’s obviously intelligent and informed, but he sees it completely different from how you see it. Then you talk to someone else and discover that this person has an entirely different point of view from either you or the other guy.
“Those idiots!” you mutter darkly to yourself. “It’s so obvious. How can they be so blind?!”
This happens in politics all the time. I hear people saying that their opponents are dishonest, stupid, crazy or evil. The opponents tend to be equally sure that you’re dishonest, stupid, crazy or evil. How can we come to such different conclusions?
I think the people who disagree with me about politics or social policy tend to be simply wrong, not evil or stupid or crazy. My thought has been that if you can understand their assumptions and their ways of looking at the world, their conclusions will at least make sense, even if you still think they’re completely wrong. You can understand that people of good will and sound brains can disagree.

We will destroy ourselves if we don’t learn to love our enemies
When you compromise principles, you soon won’t recognize yourself
We fill life with noise because silence forces us to hear truth
Until I can have the family I need, I’ll spend my Thanksgiving alone
What if our craving for dopamine drives our desires and addictions?
My own question now faced me: ‘Would a healthy person do that?’
Live in ways that allow you to be the ‘light’ in life of one you love
Mass. principal cancels honors night so losers won’t have hurt feelings