Why do people remain in situations in which they’re unhappy? Why do people hate their jobs, but remain there? Why do people in miserable marriages remain, frequently producing children to join in the dysfunction? And why do people who see the sickness of a failing political system remain loyal to it rather than look for alternatives?
I suspect it’s largely because people have trouble dealing with uncertainty. They might be miserable with what they have, but they’re unwilling to give it up until they have proof that the alternative is better. They’re scared to step out into the uncertainty of taking a chance and they’re scared to have faith that they can build something better.
It’s uncertainty that makes people terribly uncomfortable with certain situations and even certain art. In the work of M.C. Escher, we see a perfect example. Instead of painting normal and understandable things in the world around us, this brilliant Dutch artist created works that feel uncomfortable to many people, because much of it feels contradictory and uncertain, such as the example above. (Which way is the water flowing, anyway? How can what you’re looking at even exist?)
Rodney Dangerfield wasn’t funny, but tenacity built career as comic
Illegal bribes mean a politician is corrupt, but the legal things he does are just as immoral
Healthy partner will always ask, ‘Who do you really want to be?’
If majority rule is such a great idea, why don’t we vote on toothpaste?
Spoiled brat sues White Castle because he can’t fit into a booth
The Fourth Amendment? Hmmmm. No, we’ve never heard of that one
We rarely have wisdom we need ’til it’s too late to avoid mistakes
Not happy with your life? Change your narrative, change your life