When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
Why do we create families? It’s a ‘matter of the heart,’ not head
‘Run away with me?’ I couldn’t accept her offer, but I wanted to
Do you obey petty rules? Or do you fight The Man in hopes of change?
Best years of our lives? For me, teen years were start of feeling like alien
Modern weddings seem designed to conceal reality of relationships
A year after surreal experience of surgery, I’m still happy to be alive
Police or storm troopers: What’s become of U.S. law enforcement?
It’s OK to volunteer for tornado cleanup, but only if you’re not a pro