Why do people remain in situations in which they’re unhappy? Why do people hate their jobs, but remain there? Why do people in miserable marriages remain, frequently producing children to join in the dysfunction? And why do people who see the sickness of a failing political system remain loyal to it rather than look for alternatives?
I suspect it’s largely because people have trouble dealing with uncertainty. They might be miserable with what they have, but they’re unwilling to give it up until they have proof that the alternative is better. They’re scared to step out into the uncertainty of taking a chance and they’re scared to have faith that they can build something better.
It’s uncertainty that makes people terribly uncomfortable with certain situations and even certain art. In the work of M.C. Escher, we see a perfect example. Instead of painting normal and understandable things in the world around us, this brilliant Dutch artist created works that feel uncomfortable to many people, because much of it feels contradictory and uncertain, such as the example above. (Which way is the water flowing, anyway? How can what you’re looking at even exist?)
2-day-old baby reminds me that miracles still happen every day
Biases teach us what to expect, but we often turn out to be wrong
FDA’s war on margarine is really an attack on your freedom of choice
Sane people change systems with ideas, not by murdering people
Far-left political idiocy is ruining remake of Disney’s ‘Snow White’
Vile human cost of war ignored by Americans playing political games
One of life’s greatest gifts is for someone to give us full attention
In an age when lies are expected, integrity matters more than ever
New year is great time to resolve to cut toxic folks out of your life