When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
FRIDAY FUNNIES
Being alone allows us to indulge our worst flaws and avoid change
Jobs are created from ‘selfish’ acts; they don’t just exist on their own
Love & Hope — Episode 12:
My old fear of looking foolish is strong incentive to do good work
Love & Hope — Episode 6:
Where do we go from here? Things are about to get very interesting
What would I do with my time if the money made no difference?
X-ray scanners used by TSA banned in Europe over health concerns