When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
Experimentation produces beauty that won’t come from slavishly following One True Way
A question I’m scared to answer: Why haven’t I made another film?
In the great new culture war over Thanksgiving shopping, I’m neutral
Is there life on Mars? Is there love? Where can we find what’s missing?
Step in the right direction: U.S. ad group bans cosmetic photoshopping
If you made bad partner choice, it’s up to you to make a change
I want the culture to value smart women more than ‘hot’ women
THE McELROY ZOO: Meet Thomas, the aloof loner of my menagerie