As I waited to pull onto U.S. 11 just a few miles from my house Wednesday evening, there didn’t seem to be anything unusual about it. The highway is busy that time of day, with two lanes of traffic in each direction and a turn lane in the middle. I’ve crossed those lanes hundreds of times, and I had no way of knowing this time was going to be different.
Traffic was heavy, but I was going to have time to cross to the other side if I timed it well. Just as I pulled out, though, an oncoming car did something I didn’t expect. I accelerated to get out of the way, barreling into the turn lane, where a car coming from another direction had just unexpectedly moved. I changed directions once again and ended up in yet another lane, startling another driver.
I’d almost hit at least three cars. I pulled off the road to think about this.
When a doctor first diagnosed me with breast cancer two weeks ago and said I had to have surgery, I expected to go through changing emotions in the days leading up to the experience. But knowing that and experiencing it are two entirely different things. Four days before I’m scheduled to be cut on next Monday, I can say I’ve had a number of emotions creep up on me unexpectedly.

Am I betraying the truth if I don’t preach to the converted each day?
NOTEBOOK: Why do so many libertarians need One True Way?
‘The moment we begin to seek love, love begins to seek us and save us’
We have a hunger for love just as strong as the need for food, water
I’m the common denominator in all of my failed relationships
On National Dog Day, remember how love can change any of us
‘Resisting arrest’? When police have wrongly invaded your home?
What are you likely to regret when it’s too late to change?