Why do people remain in situations in which they’re unhappy? Why do people hate their jobs, but remain there? Why do people in miserable marriages remain, frequently producing children to join in the dysfunction? And why do people who see the sickness of a failing political system remain loyal to it rather than look for alternatives?
I suspect it’s largely because people have trouble dealing with uncertainty. They might be miserable with what they have, but they’re unwilling to give it up until they have proof that the alternative is better. They’re scared to step out into the uncertainty of taking a chance and they’re scared to have faith that they can build something better.
It’s uncertainty that makes people terribly uncomfortable with certain situations and even certain art. In the work of M.C. Escher, we see a perfect example. Instead of painting normal and understandable things in the world around us, this brilliant Dutch artist created works that feel uncomfortable to many people, because much of it feels contradictory and uncertain, such as the example above. (Which way is the water flowing, anyway? How can what you’re looking at even exist?)
Death of stranger’s dog reminds me how much dogs mean to us
Hiding anger was a survival skill, so you might not know I’m angry
Feral cats and hurt people both require trust and patience to heal
Art builds bridges for aliens who crave connection with humans
If principles of First Amendment still apply, principles of Second do, too
Shouldn’t you believe everything you see posted on social media?
Dear FBI, NSA and all three-letter agencies: ‘We don’t trust you guys’
We who believe life has meaning have lost war for modern culture
‘Breaking Cat News’ is amazing art and evidence of dreams come true