When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
The love I crave seems beyond horizon, always out of my reach
NOTEBOOK: Get ready for the epic snoozer of Obama vs. Romney
Goodbye, Anne (2009-2019)
Are we destined to become our parents? Or can we be different?
As I faced my father’s narcissism, I had to confront who I’d become
I’m slowly learning how to be contented as an ordinary man
Cycles keep us circling through life until we get something right