When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
Some rewards are great enough to ignore risks and take big chances
Patterns that made old mistakes keep us making same old errors
Ghost of Richard M. Nixon haunts Obama administration’s IRS fiasco
Why can it feel strange to lose homes we haven’t seen for years?
The ‘man in the mirror’ always turns out to be our worst enemy
Does the delusion that most people agree with us explain the appeal of majoritarian systems?
Little remains in me of the person I was when I married for lifetime
‘Free money for everybody’? Is it smart for principled libertarians?
Honesty, wisdom and insight teach that we have to live with uncertainty