When I saw Ryan Friday evening, I knew he was upset. He was just getting to work, but he looked beaten and angry. He sat down to tell me his story.
Ryan’s a young guy who went to buy a car Friday. He took slightly more than $2,000 to a dealership to buy a car that costs about $10,000. After test driving the car and agreeing to a price, he filled out all the paperwork — only to be told at the end that he didn’t make enough money, even though he works full time and has a good record.
He was hurt and angry. It wasn’t just that he needed a car. He felt that he had done everything he’s been told he’s supposed to do as a young adult in this society, but he’s not finding the opportunities he expected — and he’s hearing “no” often enough that he’s getting frustrated. And his frustration is turning to anger.
People who invoke ‘fairness’ generally just mean, ‘Do things my way — or else’
Illusions we project for others allow us to remain hidden inside
Hugs from a sweet little girl can erase stress after long work day
Will Honduras establish the first modern free city? It’s possible
If majority rule is such a great idea, why don’t we vote on toothpaste?
Why do we create families? It’s a ‘matter of the heart,’ not head
For first time in my life, I fear not finding love and life I’ve needed