When most people demand “tolerance” of others, they really mean they insist that others accept their own positions — and then they’re outraged if positions contrary to their own are actually tolerated.
I keep thinking about that when I read about the gay activists who are leading obsessive boycotts of the fast food chain, Chick-fil-A. For decades, these same gay activists have demanded that everyone show toleration of their sexual orientation. There was a time when gays and lesbians were horribly mistreated by the law. We’re not living in that day, and it’s silly to pretend that we are. (I’ve argued that the state has no business defining marriage and dictating who can marry, so I’m not in a camp that wants to legally define marriage in any particular way.)
Activists are angry with Chick-fil-A because the private company’s owners have given money to Christian groups, some of which have favored efforts to legally define marriage as being between a man and a woman. The activists say this isn’t just a disagreement. No, it’s “hate,” they say. They don’t give any evidence that Chick-fil-A hates anyone. They simply define disagreement with their view as hatred. It’s hard to imagine a more insane twisting of what words really mean.

‘What are we Christians to do?’ Jesus has already answered that
A year later, late-night phone call and suicide threat still echo in me
If you allow anything to be priority over love and beauty, you’re a fool
They won’t listen to arguments; they might listen to honest art
China’s one-child policy: Unintended consequences on a grand scale
Since I’ve lost status I once had, it’s a shock to see I want it back
It’s time to change my story and reinvent myself — one more time
Is anyone surprised at gridlock of congressional ‘super committee’?