I don’t want to feel angry. I don’t want to feel hopeless about the future of my country. I don’t want to feel despair about the future of the people around me.
I’ve been trying so hard to focus on thinking and writing about the ways in which principled and decent Americans can stop their society from collapsing — on the ways in which individuals can build something that’s healthy and functional even in the face of the horrible things going on around us.
But there are times when I feel as though things have gone so far that even the people who need to hear that can’t hear, because the raging cacophony of the dysfunctional culture makes it impossible for them to hear.
This is why so many socially conservative people have unwisely turned to political power as a way to create the society they want. They see cultural forces that are destroying the traditional values which gave us things that were worth conserving. They see those forces replacing those things with ideas and ways of life which are irrational and destructive and evil.
What social conservatives don’t understand, though, is that giving in to the desire to seize political power — even in the service of stopping this destructive evil — corrupts them so badly that they end up betraying the values they originally claimed to hold.

I have a history of ignoring signs that warn me it’s time for change
If you cherish the things you love, never take loved ones for granted
Living without human connection? It’s an empty life with no meaning
People who invoke ‘fairness’ generally just mean, ‘Do things my way — or else’
You finally have to stop making excuses for people who hurt you
Bias, incompetence or manipulation? Things aren’t always what they seem
I can’t help wanting to replay life with emotionally healthy parents