When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
Nature struggles to keep alive
How long will I keep finding toxic programming from my childhood?
Evil media bias? It depends on which lens you’re looking through that day
‘How the Grinch Stole Christmas’
How can I share what’s obvious when nobody will listen or see?
Though it’s helpful to have talent, that won’t guarantee success
Normal days often turn to terror when you live with a narcissist
Smart people will flee big cities before death, disease take over