Where were you a year ago? As 2010 was drawing to a close and 2011 stretched out before you, what did you expect the new year to bring? Have your hopes been met? Or have you been disappointed instead?
The end of the year is always a time of introspection for me. I know the new year is an arbitrary thing that doesn’t mean anything other than what we bring to it, but I still end up thinking a lot about the year I’ve just been through and the year that’s about to start. I evaluate what I wanted from the year just ending and I think hard about what I want from the new one.
This thinking can leave me emotional and introspective, so I’ve been feeling a lot of things strongly this week. I’m impatient about some things. I’m angry at myself about others. I’m determined and focused about yet other things. I’m happier with where I am today than I was a year ago, even though I didn’t make as much progress as I’d hoped.
Every year, the slate is wiped clean and we get a new year, but that doesn’t mean we can wait forever to start the things that matter. We have choices about what to do with each year. If you spend a year wisely, you can build something else on top of that year in the years after that. But if you squander the years — and never start moving toward being the person you need to be or toward doing the things you need to do — you reach a point at which some doors start closing.

Political attitudes about race prove we’re still living in a tribal world
AUDIO: I need to reject a popular but emotionally dangerous path
Ten years later, it hurts to know she lost faith in me and gave up
The more I see of death, the more determined I am to live life fully
Here’s the jobs growth Obama promised—in federal workers
I often need this warning label: ‘Does not play well with others’
If there’s something you must do, income and vocation might clash
Nothing new here: Russell Brand pushing same old socialist idiocy