When most people demand “tolerance” of others, they really mean they insist that others accept their own positions — and then they’re outraged if positions contrary to their own are actually tolerated.
I keep thinking about that when I read about the gay activists who are leading obsessive boycotts of the fast food chain, Chick-fil-A. For decades, these same gay activists have demanded that everyone show toleration of their sexual orientation. There was a time when gays and lesbians were horribly mistreated by the law. We’re not living in that day, and it’s silly to pretend that we are. (I’ve argued that the state has no business defining marriage and dictating who can marry, so I’m not in a camp that wants to legally define marriage in any particular way.)
Activists are angry with Chick-fil-A because the private company’s owners have given money to Christian groups, some of which have favored efforts to legally define marriage as being between a man and a woman. The activists say this isn’t just a disagreement. No, it’s “hate,” they say. They don’t give any evidence that Chick-fil-A hates anyone. They simply define disagreement with their view as hatred. It’s hard to imagine a more insane twisting of what words really mean.

There’s magic in the dark solitude and quiet stillness after midnight
How do you suppose invention of ‘truth machine’ would affect you?
Your ignored mistakes quickly become impossible to change
You’ve been lied to: Freedom and democracy are different things
Serenity is seeing all sides of life, choosing to continue the journey
Kind words can make difference for stressed parents at Christmas
Our self-deception is attempt to justify whatever we do to others
Until we experience awakening, we’re blind to truth in our hearts
For most men, ‘I’m a nice guy,’ means, ‘I’ll always be a loser’