On the public radio show “This American Life” last week, there was a segment in which an American Muslim family discussed how the last 10 years have affected them. A year after the Sept. 11, 2001, attacks happened, a girl in the family started being harassed at her suburban school. The mother first refused to believe the anti-Muslim sentiment she was seeing could be typical of Americans, but after years of experiencing it, she’s come to accept that America is just bigoted against Muslims.
I have a different view. I’d say it’s misguided to say that intolerance is an American thing or a Christian thing or an Arab thing or a Muslim thing. Instead, it’s really a human thing.
I’ve seen plenty of misguided bigotry against Muslims over the past 10 years, although we’ve been seeing it for decades (going back to the early days of the Arab-Israeli conflict). I’ve heard casual bigotry against Muslims from people I’ve known, but I’ve never seen anything that would rise to the level of violence or even direct confrontation. It would be wrong to deny it’s there, but’s it’s also wrong to pretend that it’s anything except an ugly part of human nature.

Tribal hatreds around me mean detour on road to personal peace
What’s your goal? Do you want to blow off steam or find solutions?
I want the culture to value smart women more than ‘hot’ women
You’re wrong! If you don’t agree, you’re just an evil, lying moron
Was I ‘fat’? ‘Lazy’? My father’s ugly words made me feel shame
Without courage to take action, day will come when it’s too late

Political systems built on coercion will always produce cheats, liars
Meeting with dead man left me pondering choices of life, death