When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
We have no choice but to trust even in face of betrayal and hurt
I often need this warning label: ‘Does not play well with others’
I can’t find the balance between expecting too much and too little
Taking responsibility for mistakes is foreign concept in many lawsuits
Understanding Trump popularity requires empathy for his voters
FRIDAY FUNNIES
Goodbye, Dagny (2004-2019)
Joe Rogan isn’t insightful to me, so I just don’t listen to his show
Was I ‘fat’? ‘Lazy’? My father’s ugly words made me feel shame